Parents problems. my mum wants a divorce.?

it sounds to me like u did go threw a lot of mental anguish threw out your life. Why would you want to keep doing it? Thats the question you need to ask yourself. sounds to me like she has her mind made up and we can't force people to stay togeather no matter how much we want them to. Maybe this divorce is the best for both your mother and father. The only problem i see with it is if your dads not with her any more she will burden you a lot more about other problems she will run into after he is no longer with her. So the only thing i can sugest is to tell her right out i am a adult and i refuse to take sides. And if you divorce dad you will be on your own for the rest of your life as long as you stay unhappy about the way things are going in your life. Stop being her sholder to cry on. she will need to buck up and take on her own problems as they come. Like my father always told me you make your bed you sleep on it. and thats what i would be telling her! so good luck and God bless.