How can I meet my dream woman?

I have been single for 4 years now. I have done the club and bar scene, Tried craigslist, tried online dating sites, tried personals in the newspaper, tried having friends set me up with people. Nothing seems to work. I just wanna settle down and have a family before I grow old and die. btw I am 37 now. I am beginning to think I am cursed or ugly and will die alone. What Can I do to get a woman to love me for me?